Teething myths and facts for the first tooth
Myth versus fact on teething: when the first tooth usually comes, what helps safely, what to avoid, and which symptoms are not teething and need a doctor.
By PreggieLover 3 min read
Drool soaks every bib. Fists, toys and your shoulder are chewed with determination. One cheek looks pink, and your baby is unsettled. Someone in the family says, with great confidence, "It's teeth." Maybe it is. But teething comes with a lot of folklore, and some of it can lead parents to miss illness or use remedies that are not safe. Here are the most common myths, and the facts.
Myth: Teething always starts at three months
Fact: The first tooth usually appears somewhere around six months, but it can come earlier or later. A few babies are born with a tooth, and some do not get their first until after their first birthday. The bottom front teeth are usually first. Drooling and chewing often start well before any tooth appears, because babies this age are naturally exploring with their mouths.
Myth: Teething causes high fever
Fact: Teething may make your baby a little warmer than usual, but it does not cause a high fever. If your baby has a fever, look for another cause and follow the usual advice. If your baby is under three months and has a temperature of 38°C or higher, seek urgent medical help. If your baby is three to six months old with a temperature of 39°C or higher, contact your doctor promptly. At any age, seek urgent help if a fever comes with a rash that does not fade under a glass, breathing difficulty, floppiness, a seizure, or a baby who will not feed.
Myth: Teething causes diarrhoea and vomiting
Fact: Teething is not a recognised cause of significant diarrhoea, vomiting or illness. Babies are mouthing everything at this age and can pick up tummy bugs. Watch for signs of dehydration, such as fewer wet nappies, a dry mouth, a sunken soft spot or unusual sleepiness, and contact your doctor if you see them.
Myth: Amber necklaces soothe teething pain
Fact: There is no good evidence that amber or other teething necklaces or bracelets help, and they carry a real risk of choking and strangulation. Do not use them.
Myth: Any teething gel or home remedy is fine
Fact: Some teething gels and powders are not suitable for young babies, and some traditional remedies contain ingredients that can harm them. Before using any gel, powder or medicine, talk to your pharmacist, doctor or health visitor about whether it is right for your baby's age. Avoid rubbing alcohol, herbal mixtures, sugar or honey on the gums.
What does help
Many babies get through teething with simple, safe comfort:
- Something to chew. A clean teething ring, chilled in the fridge (not the freezer), gives firm, cool relief.
- A clean finger. Gently rub your baby's gums with a washed finger.
- Wipe the drool. Gently pat the chin dry often to prevent sore skin, and use a barrier cream if your pharmacist suggests it.
- Extra cuddles and a little patience with sleep for a few days.
- Distraction through play, songs or a walk outside.
If your baby seems in a lot of pain, speak to your pharmacist or doctor, who can advise you on what is suitable.
Caring for those first teeth
As soon as the first tooth appears, start brushing twice a day with a soft baby toothbrush and a tiny smear of fluoride toothpaste, as your dentist or health visitor advises. Do not put your baby to bed with a bottle of milk or juice, which can cause tooth decay. Register with a dentist if you can, and ask when to bring your baby along.
A refuge for fussy days
Teething days can be long. Your baby is uncomfortable and not quite themselves, and you are trying to work out whether this is teeth, a cold, a growth spurt or something else. That uncertainty is tiring. It is right to ask for advice, and it is right to bring your worries to God.
"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble." (Psalm 46:1, KJV)
A "very present help" means help right here, in this hot, drooly, unsettled afternoon. You do not have to wait until things calm down to find Him.
A prayer for teething days
Lord, my baby is uncomfortable and I want to help. Give me wisdom to tell teething from illness, and to know when to call the doctor. Soothe my little one, and steady me. Be our very present help today. Amen.
Frequently asked questions
When do babies usually get their first tooth?
Usually around six months, though it can be earlier or later. Drooling and chewing often start before any tooth appears.
Can teething cause a high temperature?
No. Teething may make your baby slightly warmer, but a high fever has another cause. Contact your doctor, and seek urgent help for a baby under three months with a temperature of 38C or higher.
Are amber teething necklaces safe?
No. They have no proven benefit and carry a real risk of choking and strangulation, so they should not be used.
This article is for general information and encouragement, not medical advice. Please talk to your doctor or midwife about your own health and your baby's.
